Instill Confidence

You  have seen many times such people who manage everything and the world is stunned to see their success. It's called a miracle of confidence. That's why confidence is so important in career. The fact is that self-confidence is built on the foundation of self esteem. Self-esteem can be only in a person who has the power to think and the courage to face every challenge of life. This creates a strong personality. A person who lacks self-esteem and self-confidence often proves to be a failure or a failure due to the fear and inferiority complex. 

• Learn to express yourself and prioritize your aspirations. 
• Forget past failures after taking lessons from them, then only you will be able to take the path of success. 
• Do not be afraid of the possibility of any failure, but face it. As long as you do not take such a risk, you will be afraid. But this fear will run away by taking the risk. 
• Mark your insecurities. Take steps carefully by noting what can be its treatment. 
• Discuss openly with close friends and family. This will help in removing your insecurities by giving unbiased opinion. Once the problem is detected, it is decided to solve it. 
• Think positive. This will make the whole world look good and there will be no fear in facing it. This fearlessness is the basis of self confidence. 
• Smile. This will show your confidence and the confidence of the other person will also be established. 
• Stay true to your principles. This will show your strong character and above all, give all possible support to others. The self-satisfaction earned by this will double your confidence. 

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Avoid Negative Thoughts

It is important to protect your mind and intellect from negative thoughts and to engage in positive thoughts,because thoughts arise in the mind all the time, they cannot be stopped.The sorrows of life are remembered quickly, while finding happiness they are remembered only a little.Desire arise, the intellect gets trapped in their web, due to which different types of messages are sent to the body and they spoil those organs due to wrong messages( messages of sorrow) and human beings suffer from various diseases of the body due to mental thoughts.The body's juices get disturbed, the digestive system starts deteriorating and many types of diseases start forming, the nature sometimes becomes monotonous.The mind cannot be happy.Negative thoughts surround. Conscious people take measures to protect their mind and intellect from the effects of inferiority complex or negative thoughts, they keep on bringing a feeling to themselves that God can fix something in some way in future.No one walks before God.It is proper to do as he pleases. Remaining in God, chanting his name, meditating, keeping oneself busy in tasks, playing light entertainment, playing sports, exercising, talking a lot, doing any heartfelt work etc. saves us from the state which is formed by negative thoughts.Negative feelings or thoughts or desire, lack of mind etc. are many things.The one who gives strength to such thoughts is demonic.Do not come into their possession.Seeing Arjun's troubles,Krishna said,"Turn your thoughts towards me and come under my shelter. Leave the worries. Put good and bad in my bag and be sure". 

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Good Thoughts

 

• Be the person who says i feel good, i feel great.
• Remember everyone likes enthusiastic people. 
• Tell good news to fellow people and subordinates. Praise him on every occasion. 
• When saying farewell to a person, ask yourself whether this person's mood has improved after talking to me. 
• Every person has a desire to be considered important whether it is a child or an old man. 
• If you make someone feel important, they will also start to care about you and do more things for you. 
• Get into the habit of complimenting. Give gifts of praise to people on small things. Praise their dress, their way of working, their ideas, their loyalty, their hard work and their achievements. 
• When the opportunity comes, say that without you my work could not have been completed. 
• Know people by name. Use Miss, Mrs, Mr., Madam before the name. Be sure to use respectful words. 
• Don't take your credit, give credit for your success to your team and teammates. 
• Spend money or not but must invest appreciation. 😊😊

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Be Creative

• Creative thinking means finding new improved ways of doing something.
• Complete your work. Focus on the qualities of the people. Come up with an idea to ameliorate things and work towards it. It awakens the creative power. 
• Ability to act is a mental state. When you really beleive you can do more, your brain thinks creatively and you see the way. 
• There will be some way to solve the problem, positive thoughts will start coming on thinking and also the solutions. 
• Have the courage to be your own creative critic. 
• If you think calmly, then you will find that the reason for your stress is negative feelings towards other people. Create positive thoughts about others. Think how wonderful this world is. There are both good and bad in it. 
• Successful people keep only positive thoughts in their memories. Successful people with confidence do not remember unpleasant situations. Remember the good things in your life.
• Creativity is more about training your brain to show up for work rather than waiting for inspiration to strike. 
• Remember your small success and achievements. And remember the good things that God has given. 😊😊

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Myself

 

Little bit about me:

• I was born in Najibabad (District - Bijnor). Najibabad is also known as "Gateway of himalayas". And, there is Pathargarh fort built by Najibuddaula(Famous by Sultana Daku ka qila).
• I like to read motivational books. I am highly inspired by motivational speakers as Sandeep Maheshwari, Sadhguru, Sonu Sharma, Jaya Kishori and so on. 
• Earlier i didn't like villages at all but now I love villages, its greenery, its air and its people. 
• I have a very cute little child, Divyatam. Right now he is not with me, I miss him a lot. And if God's grace is there and you guys keep supporting like this; then soon he will be with me. You can see his videos on this link : 

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• I love to do exercise, yoga, meditation and all these things have given me a lot of courage to fight with this situation. 
• I always remember Shahrukh Khan dialogue: Thank you for making me beleive that,Just like in our films,in life too finally in the end, everything is fine. Happy endings. And if its not happy.... it's not the end, my friends. The film is not over yet!
• I like children very much, we get to learn a lot from children. And, i learned a lot from my son.
• I could easily trust anyone. But i will say this, do not trust anyone blindly except your parents especially girls.
• This life taught me a lot. Thank you life. Thank you God for giving me this life.
• My aim in life is to make everyday count in the matter of learning and in the matter of taking one  more steps in the process of becoming an individual, a greater human being. 😊😊

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Self improvement

• Have you ever asked yourself what is my biggest weakness? 
• Let us know our shortcomings, this is a good thing. This tells us that we have to improve in these areas. But knowing the shortcomings should also not mean that you get inferiority complex and you start estimating yourself and your courage decreases and you stop trying. 
• Failure teaches that the shortcomings that were there should be removed, if something can be done by changing then change should also be done. 
• Don't see what is, see what can be.
• Focus on your qualities and your abilities. 
• Rise above small things. Focus your attention on bigger goals. 
• When you try and start working with faith, your mind will find ways. Pauline Kael quote, "Where there is a will there is a way".
• Welcome new ideas. Be an experimental person. Take interest in learning other aspects of business. This will broaden your thinking and you will be able to take more responsibility. 
• Don't think of things that hold you back. Don't resist progress. 
• Only believe I can do it, it creates ability, energy and strength. 
• The more we practice, the sooner we will be successful. 
• Make the most of your abilities for success. 
• Avoid making excuses. 
• Determine how can I improve the quality of my performance? How can I do this job better? Always keep the possibility of better. Successful people are always looking for better ways. 😊😊

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Good Company

 

Sathya Sai Baba Quote : "Good company is important, it helps to cultivate good qualities".

• Your environment is the food of your mind. Our habits, attitudes and personalities are determined by mindful eating. If you were born in another country, you would have a different environment and you would have been a completely different kind of person. Environment has a great impact. 
• How you will change depends on your future environment as the future food of the brain will be according to the future environment. 
• Mix and exchange ideas with successful people and those want success. 
• Sit with people from whom you can get new ideas, new ways of doing things, learning. Meet people with different professions and social interests. Broaden your mind. 
• Negative people are everywhere and they enjoy spoiling the game made by others, so identify the right people and by knowing them, help can be taken in your work. 
• You are recognized by your peers. Similar people live together.
• Make your environment your ally, not your opponent. Don't let them get you down who say you can't do it. That is, those who frighten, bring weakness, discourage, prevent from doing right, avoid those people. 

Some famous quotes:

• Birds of a feather flock together
• You are known by the company you keep. 
• Apples don't fall far from the tree. 
• Two peas in a pod

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Change your thoughts

1. Your thinking about work shows whether you have the ability to take big responsibility or not. How much you respect your work, you do it equally well. 
2. Other people judge your ability by your actions. 
3. Why do many people stay on the same level all their lives, maybe their thinking keeps them there because thinking creates the level of action. 
4. One person wants to do only his routine work, while the other wants to learn and do the work beyond that. Understand,that the first will not progress while the second person will definitely move forward. 
5. If you have enthusiasm, then the people around you will also be enthusiastic. 
6. Think enthusiastically, this is a great job and say, "I can do this work". We should have optimistic and progressive thinking. 
7. You have to be enthusiastic about that work. Others will also be excited to see your enthusiasm, and your work will be done well. 😊😊

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Everyone has Value

 

Every living things on the earth is important. Size,age does not count value everyone.

I will explain by Story:-

It was a veritably hot summer. All the rivers had run dry.A thirsty herd of wild mammoths wandered in hunt of water but they were in no luck for numerous days.One day,deep in the forest ,the mammoths saw a lake. They ran towards it.The sound of  their running would have put the roaring thunder to shame! A large family of mice lived near the lake.Numerous of  the mice were hurt when the mammoths ran to the lake.So the mice had a meeting. And they went to the leader of the herd and said, "O King,we have lived near the lake for numerous years.When you came to drink water, numerous of us were hurt.Could you please use another route to get to the lake?We may be suitable to help you".

The leader of the mammoths was veritably kind. He said to them, "Please don't worry.

I shall tell my herd to use another route".The mice were veritably happy and went home. The giant,still allowed to himself,"How can these teeny weeny mice help us".

              A fortnight latterly, the mammoths went to the lake to bathe and drink water. They were not aware that some cruel nimrods had laid out traps for them. The leader got caught in one of them.He was in agony.In fear,he trumpeted loud and long. The nimrods, who were hiding behind the trees came rushing towards the leader. They pulled the poor giant down and tied him to a heavy stone post.They planned to keep him interned and use him to pull logs through thick forests and over long distances.

The family of mice had seen what had happened. They remembered their pledge and awaited for

 their chance to help the elephant.They came near to him and bit through the ropes that were used to tie him to the post.Soon the giant was free.He thanked his friends and went back to his herd.That day, the giant learnt that the small can indeed occasionally help the big! 😊😊

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Pedagogy for Students

Many students all over the world are frustrated and have little interest in life. This is on the grounds that they have not yet acknowledged or been made to understand their appropriate place in the world. 

God has shared an extraordinary mission with each one of them. Once they understand this and are persuaded of their main goal, they realize that they are important. They start to give up their detachment and get energetic and keen on life's incredible assignments in front of them. They should figure out how every individual plays a part in the arrangement of God. 

Students vary in their talents and intellectual ability. There are no problem children;only children with problems. No defective children;only children with defects. Students should be taught to think out solutions to problems so that they are able to develop their intellectual ability. 

1. They must be punctual and regular at school because of the great benefits they are to derive for themselves and others;not because of the fear of punishment. 
2. They should cultivate the habit of reading good books. 
3. They should learn the great value of making sacrifices and the spirit of team work which will bring about progress in the community and the country. 
4. Students should never be afraid of problems and difficulties that face them, their elders also have come through those problems so listen to them sympathetically. 
5. They should frankly and truthfully place themselves in the hands of their parents and teachers and pray to God for light and guidance. 😊😊

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Ameliorate yourself

Some people say that this should happen or should be done and want to get it done by others,while they should show themselves by doing it.

* The brain and the body should be used to the fullest in this life. The more work any machine does, the better.

* It is not enough to make up your mind by doing some work that the work has been done. Bread can be obtained with a little work, but progress cannot be made.

* For progress,hard work i.e. continuous work has to be done and along with work, understanding is also necessary.Since wealth which comes from work stops intelligently and progresses.

* Look after suffering for others.You will get love,respect and happiness and will be called your own.

Set Goals 

We need to define an objective which is significant and beneficial. Many individuals put forward futile objectives and afterward believe that why they are not feeling any pride so set a fecund objective. We need to recollect that the motivation behind objective setting is to push us ahead and start positive change in our life. 

We as a whole should make our objectives explicit and understood. Objectives that are ambiguous will quite often fall flat. 

My dear friends whether you have small dreams or lofty prospects,setting goals allows you to plan how you want to move through life.Getting started can feel daunting,but you can make up even to the loftiest dream.😊😊

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Believe in yourself

 

If you believe in yourself Anything is possible

It is impossible to even walk a step in the world without having faith in yourself. So trust yourself first. 

Don't anticipate others to lift you up all the time,you can not hope to achieve anything on the shoulders of others. You had to be only one who's responsible for your dreams.

We are unique.Anyhow of who you were born or grew up around,the fact is, there's no bone differently like you.When you Start living in this verity,you will stop comparing yourself to others. You have a significant donation to make to the lives of the people around you. When you concentrate on all the great effects, you have to offer, your perspective on life changes.Know your values,your life purpose, and your dreams.

As some human beings feel sick with some disease due to weakness of mind while they are fine instead their mind is sick. They lack bravery. They overreact to even the smallest things and become unhappy. One person is courageous even from illness, while the other is not courageous even though he is healthy. It's just a game of mind. 

So believe in yourself, look back and see what achievements you have made. Always look on positive side. Everyone make mistakes. Don't be afraid of mistakes. Learn from your mistakes and at the end you will see a great change in yourself. 

Be the best version of yourself and don't think what others will say. If you really believe in yourself then you can fight with any power in the world. 😊😊

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Accept Challenges

Problems are not stop sign they are guidelines

When you lose your job, an opportunity or a relationship.Don't regret loss is an inevitable part of life.Loss is one of the life's biggest challenges. But don't be sad loss gives you the opportunity to reflect on what is truly important so that you keep moving forward. 

Turn your challenges into opportunities. 

Consider them as a blessing because they take you a step ahead of where you are.It is very easy to say but when we face challenges in real life, our mind doesn't allow us to think that way because it is trained to follow those same old pattern of reacting to challenging situations so take a deep breath and accept the situation. 

Difficulties are one side of a unbiased coin if you flip it you will get happiness but to flip it you have to put some hard work.Its same as when you prepare a lemon juice it does not taste good till you add sugar to enjoy that juice.Similarly difficulties are lemon juice without sugar and when you overcome that difficulty you added sugar to your life and you can now enjoy your life.

Difficulties make you stronger so you get some other methods to do the same thing to overcome that difficulty,in short you come to know about your capabilities and so you become happy. 

In life,there are moments when everything seems to go wrong.Doing anything feels useless because we think it won't change a thing. Negativity and anxiety overwhelm us, and life comes to a grinding halt. 

I would like to make you understand this with a story. 

Story -When a baby giraffe is born, it fells from a height, and suffers injury, and even after that the mother giraffe gives a strong kick to him, and then he thinks he is doing something wrong so tries to walk and stumbles,then he gets one more hard kick from his mother and this time he is sure that he need to do something otherwise this phenomenon will keep on going and then finally he starts running. That's how a baby giraffe learns walking and running. 

Reason - The flesh of baby giraffe is very sweet and hynas love it more than anything and the mother giraffe knows that she can't be everytime around her baby, so he must know how to protect himself. 

So my dear friends, when life throws it's difficulties on us it are meant to be for our betterment and will surely help us to make a super future. 😊😊

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